If Four Letter Words Offend You Don't Read This Post

I was at work today. My location is important to this post. I said a naughty word. While at work. I didn't utter this swear word while alone in my office. I was in a meeting.

I wish I had used an explative while standing up for right, "Now just a damn minute there. I won't charge more than $1.49 for gas. I won't."

I didn't say that. I don't sell gasoline. If I did sell gas you'd get it for .99 a gallon.

No, I was angry. In this meeting -- with all the "top" people --- including the director --- yes, a whole four of us -- I repeated information I was told: "Sometimes staff allow patrons to check out more than two books."

A manager asked where I heard that. I replied that it had come from a member of her staff.

She recoiled and said "That's a lie."

I stood (and this is where you might want to avert your eyes) and said, in a manner than could be described as very excited, "Don't fucking call me a liar."

Ok, it was a seven letter word.

One irritated director later I was mollified. The meeting resumed. I apologized for uttering the seven letter word. I received the information that my word choice showed my lack of "intellectual maturity."

I later was told that the manager must have meant "the information I had heard was a lie. I must have misunderstood her intent."

Uh huh.

Look, I understand that some people can be called a liar and simply shrug it off. I am evidently not that person. Call it "keeping it real." Call it self respect. Whatever.

Do I wish I hadn't said it? Yes.

Yes, because the information I had imparted was forgotten in the controversy.

At lunch I told a friend about the meeting. He said something to the effect of "They'd rather act moral than correct."

I let it bother me the rest of the day.

Now I'll leave it here.



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Damn, I wish I had been available to have that lunch talk; I apologize that it was not so.

Fools often win arguments because some of us do not suffer them gladly. (paraphrased....)

I know you know, but, the respect of certain people isn't worth the time it takes to demand it! In such cases, it is much more satisfying to point this out to them. Its hard to be that clever off the cuff though.

# Posted by: Wil at June 6, 2004 12:01 AM

Damn, I wish I had been available to have that lunch talk; I apologize that it was not so.

Fools often win arguments because some of us do not suffer them gladly. (paraphrased....)

I know you know, but, the respect of certain people isn't worth the time it takes to demand it! In such cases, it is much more satisfying to point this out to them. Its hard to be that clever off the cuff though.

# Posted by: Wil at June 6, 2004 12:11 AM

You know there's always been something about you, domoni, that I just couldn't put my finger on. You're intellectually immature.

Just kidding.

That's a bummer. The worst part is I bet you felt worse than they did all day when it should have been the other way around.

I bet they don't call you a liar again.

# Posted by: David at June 8, 2004 10:25 PM

Hi,
I found your blog via google by accident and have to admit that youve a really interesting blog :-)
Just saved your feed in my reader, have a nice day :)

# Posted by: Florian at January 29, 2007 11:45 AM

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